Freedom, it seems to me, is an oft-misunderstood concept. In 2023, in Indeed, Freedom Is Not Free, I explained why freedom is not the same thing as unregulated behavior. Last year, in Freedom To Do or Freedom From or Both?, I concluded that there are two sides to freedom, "freedom to do"and "freedom from."These concepts are mutual, because "freedom to do" is simply "freedom from" regulation, authority, and social constraint, and "freedom from" is simply "freedom to do" whatever is being escaped.Yet though I did not change those words, I will add a sequel. In college I took a course called "American Civilization" by the late, esteemed Professor Anthony N. B. Garvan. At the end of a semester in which he took that class on a journey through the many phases of American culture as manifested in behavior, belief, art, and other expressions, he closed on the last day of class, back in the 1970s, by predicting that America's culture was changing yet again, shifting into what he called the "me generation." And yes, that came to pass. A shift from valuing the benefits of living in an interconnected, mutually supportive society to an emphasis on the rights and privileges of individuals that weakened the emphasis on the responsibilities of individuals. Empathy lost space to selfishness. Accountability and transparency were surmounted by lies and cover-ups. Generosity became disfavored as greed took center stage. "How can I help" was heard less often than "What's in it for me?" The delicate balance between rights and responsibility, between empathy and self-care, between generosity and greed toppled. Those heroes who sacrificed their lives to protect freedom were able to do so, not because they were consumed by greed, by selfishness, by "what's in it for me?" but because they understood the value of empathy, of resposibility, of accountability. Those heroes were part of a military that could not have succeeded, let alone survived as a cohesive force, had it been lacking in resposibility, cooperation, and empathy. And that military was supported by a civilian population that shared those same values, and there were heroes among them, also. They shared the same values.So many of the articles, commentaries, broadcasts, social media postings, cartoons, and memes that address Memorial Day proclaim respect, appreciation, and gratitude for those who fought and died to protect "our freedoms." In other words, they fought FOR freedom. They fought to DEFEND freedom. But against whom or what have they fought? Freedom needs protection and defense only if there is something that opposes freedom. There are all sorts of names for what opposes freedom, ranging from repression through authoritarianism to totalitarianism, and many hours and words have been devoted to debates over which of these words properly describe what stands in the way of freedom. But does it matter? All of these movements, ideologies, and worldviews can be lumped together under the term "anti-freedom." Memorial Day is a day to honor those who fought against and died fighting anti-freedom.
Does it not make sense that the best way to honor those who fought and died defending freedom against anti-freedom is to follow a path that does not lead to, and does not wander through, the anti-freedom desert? Does it not make sense that following a freedom path requires those who are alive and benefitting from freedom do their part in standing up to anti-freedom when its ugly head reappears, as it has over the millennia during which humans have lived? Does it make sense to behave in the same manner as those against whom the defenders of freedom fought and sacrificed their lives in doing so? Of course not. It makes no sense to throw away all that was saved, protected, and cherished by those who fought and died, because to do so means that their lives were sacrificed in vain. Do we want them observing this nation and asking themselves, and asking us, "Why did we bother?"
Yet there are those who claim to be "freedom lovers," many of whom join in Memorial Day tributes of one sort of another to our fallen heroes, whose behavior is frighteningly similar to that of those who posed the threats against freedom that sparked the battles and wars in which the heroes fell. How does one explain this incongruity? The answer rests in that tension between "freedom to do" and "freedom from" that I described in Freedom To Do or Freedom From or Both?. A simple example of this tension is the conflict between "freedom to do" 90 miles per hour on the highway and another person's "freedom from" injury and death while driving. As I wrote in that post,
What makes the analysis particularly difficult on Memorial Day is a troubling tension between "freedom from" and "freedom to do." On Memorial Day we remember and honor those who died to give this nation "freedom from" authoritarianism, dictatorship, repression, and ethnocentrism. Yet we also seem increasingly complacent when those who benefitted from the sacrifice of those we honor claim to have the "freedom to do" the very same behaviors the suppression of which was the purpose for which those we honor fought and died. It is particularly disturbing when people who profess a deep admiration for those who gave their lives to protect the nation from those enumerated evils are at the same time supporting people and policies that nurture and enlarge those same evils in this nation. What was the point of so many sacrifices to eliminate authoritarianism, dictatorship, repression, and ethnocentrism when there are people who want those same attributes to become the linchpin of this nation's existence?And now, a year later, it isn't just a matter of those who are "increasingly complacent" but those who are "supportive" of those whose behavior, policies, and decisions are less aligned with the freedom for which many died and more aligned with the ideologies and goals of those who wear the hat of "anti-freedom."I've written several times that freedom has its limitations, and that it comes at a price. The price is not only the sacrifice of those who fought and died protecting it, but the recognition of those who benefit from freedom that there are limits to what freedom permits someone to do. Freedom does not provide permission to be, or support, anti-freedom. By definition, freedom cannot be, cannot support, and cannot abide, anti-freedom.
What remains is to understand how and why the culture shifted to too many afflicted by self-centeredness, greed, and prevarication. What remains is to figure out what, if anything, can be done to rebalance the culture. I leave that to others who are learned and expertised in sociology and political science. But I leave those questions to those who read this short essay, to ponder, to reflect, to observe, to think.
May it be that those heroes we honor did not die in vain. May they never need to ask "Why did we bother?"