Last year I wrote, “This year Thanksgiving is, for me, strange and conflicted. Yes, I am thankful for many things, as I will describe in a subsequent paragraph. But I also am disappointed that there are things for which I could be thankful but am not because they did not happen, and things that did happen for which I am not thankful. But I will leave those aside because there are people who will be thankful I am leaving those things aside.” Sadly, the list of things that did happen that don’t inspire me to give thanks has grown.
As I have noted in each of the past twelve years, “I have presented litanies, bursts of Latin, descriptions of events and experiences for which I have been thankful, names of people and groups for whom I have appreciation, and situations for which I have offered gratitude. Together, these separate lists become a long catalog, and as I have done in previous years, I will do a lawyerly thing and incorporate them by reference. Why? Because I continue to be thankful for past blessings, and because some of those appreciated things continue even to this day.” When I re-read those lists, I realized that the people, events, and things for which I am appreciative are far from obsolete.
So once again on this one day I will look back at the past twelve months, and remember the people, events, and things for whom and for which I give thanks and have given thanks throughout the year. If some of these seem repetitive, they are, for there are gifts in life that keep on giving:
- I am thankful for a wonderful son, daughter, daughter-in-law, grandson, and granddaughter.
- I am thankful for my siblings, nephews, nieces, grandnephews, grandnieces, cousins of various degrees, and their families.
- I am thankful for my friends who listen to my stories, and tell me even better stories.
- I am thankful that I was able to transcribe into my Serino, Italy, genealogy the data that I brought back in 2024 from Italy, a task that took almost a year but that enlarged that town’s genealogy substantially (and added some ancestors to my mother’s maternal ancestry).
- I am thankful that I was put in contact with a researcher in Italy who has been able to provide additional information that I am currently transcribing.
- I am thankful for all the people who continue to help update the multiple family trees I develop, maintain, update, and publish.
- I am thankful for the additional cousins I have met through FTDNA, ancestry, 23andme, and myheritage who I did not know existed, and for the opportunity to get in touch with cousins who I knew existed but with whom I had no contact until they showed up on one or more of those genetic genealogy sites.
- I am thankful that my congregation’s choir has been able to continue singing.
- I am thankful that we continue to gather in the sanctuary for worship, and, yes, that I continue to ring the narthex bell.
- I am thankful for all the people in the world who continue to fight ignorance, crime, terror, evil, and corruption, and who plan to continue doing so.
- I am thankful that awareness of what needs to be done to fight ignorance and corruption has not diminished.
- I am thankful for the medical professionals who have provided me with excellent care, including the cardiologists who alerted me quickly to the need for me to pay attention to what otherwise could have been a serious problem and to have the necessary procedure, and whose attention and advice has me doing thigs that will hopefully prevent a recurrence in the future.
- I am thankful for the people who gave me rides when I was unable to drive.
- I am thankful that the Pope, while a student at Villanova University, was the one whose summer jobs included caring for the maintenance of the cemetery in which my paternal grandparents, my father’s paternal grandparents, my father’s brother and sister who died as infants, and my father’s uncle who died in his teens are buried.
- I am thankful for people being willing to read the things I write.
Have a Happy Thanksgiving. Set aside the hustle and bustle of life. Meet up with people who matter to you. Share your stories. Enjoy a good meal. Tell jokes. Sing. Laugh. Watch a parade or a football game, or both, or many. Pitch in. Carve the turkey. Wash some dishes. Help a little kid cut a piece of pie. Go outside and take a deep breath. Stare at the sky for a minute. Listen for the birds. Count the stars. Then go back inside and have seconds or thirds. Record the day in memory, so that you can retrieve it in several months when you need some strength.I am thankful to have the opportunity to share those words yet again. And I am thankful that it is possible for even more of us to do all of those things, and for others of us to most of those things.